1- Do not respond instantaneously, but do so within 24 hours.
Don?t play games, don?t be coy by waiting a week, but don?t make her think that she?s the only fish in the sea just yet. Show her proper respect and do the same for yourself. Women are like exotic wild animals. They smell fear and will instinctively use it to get and take the advantage. This is not a criticism. This is about women being turned off by desperation. They prefer a man who wants them, but can live without them if necessary. Maybe I?m being overdramatic to make a point, but if you think about it, it?s true. So clap your hands and feel free to strut like Jagger around your bedroom when you receive her response, but wait just a wee bit before sending her the all-important note #2.
2- Add new, unrecorded information to your next e-mail and include your digits.
The objective of this correspondence is to attach a last name to your first (and always use your real first name), proudly, so she can Google the hell out of you, which she will and offer her a way of connecting with you by phone. This shows respect and empowers her by having the option of protecting her identity and calling you with her number blocked, or offering you her number so you can make the first move. Then follow her lead as to how she responds when you include your number and an offer to call her if she prefers. It really doesn?t matter who makes that call, as long as you get an opportunity to take the notch up the energy exchange by hearing each other?s voice for the first time. It can be a deal maker or breaker.
3- Keep your note short and respond to any questions she might have included in her note.
It might be about your stated profession or where your kids from your previous marriage are living. And, throw in something relevant that you did not mention in your first note?like your family also raising bison when you were a kid growing up in Montana.
4- Actively listen and sync with her energy during that first phone call.
It?s amazing what is revealed when you put a voice to someone?s photo. This can be a special moment or the end. If she looks like Katherine Heigl and sounds like Joe Pesci, you may not feel quite the same after a few minutes on the horn. It happens, so don?t take it personally, and just let you heart guide you. Inevitably, the heart wants what it wants. Maybe you like hearing Pesci?s voice. It?s your call, no pun intended.
5- Ask for the order.
First phone calls can be expedient or lengthy. It doesn?t matter if it?s ten minutes or two hours, you?ll know what feels right and so will she. If there?s a connection, make sure that you tell her that you?d like to meet her and then prepared with a suggestion for meeting before winding up the call. This is the moment of truth and if you follow the previous steps and share a phone vibe, you?ve just taken things from online to offline. Congrats!
What?s been your strategy of getting to that first date?
This post first appeared on robertmanni.com.
Source: http://www.straightuplove.com/5-fastest-ways-to-move-your-online-dating-offline/
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